1 Corinthians 7:1-40
“Now
for the matters you wrote about:
‘It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.’
2 But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have
sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband.
3 The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and
likewise the wife to her husband.
4 The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it
to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his
own body but yields it to his wife.
5 Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for
a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together
again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of
self-control.
6 I say this as a concession, not as a command.
7 I wish that all of you were as I am. But each of you has your
own gift from GOD;
one has this gift, another has that.
8 Now to the unmarried and the widows I say:
It
is good for them to stay unmarried, as I do.
9 But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for
it is better to marry than to burn with passion.
10 To the married I give this command (not I, but THE LORD):
A
wife must not separate from her husband.
11 But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled
to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife.
12 To the rest I say this (I, not THE LORD):
If
any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with
him, he must not divorce her.
13 And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is
willing to live with her, she must not divorce him.
14 For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife,
and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband.
Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy.
15 But if the unbeliever leaves, let it be so. The brother or the
sister is not bound in such circumstances; GOD has called us to live in PEACE.
16 How do you know, wife, whether you will save your
husband? Or, how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?
17 Nevertheless, each person should live as a believer in whatever
situation THE LORD
has assigned to them, just as GOD has called them. This is the rule I lay down in all
the churches.
18 Was a man already circumcised when he was called? He should not
become uncircumcised. Was a man uncircumcised when he was called? He should not
be circumcised.
19 Circumcision is nothing and uncircumcision is
nothing. Keeping GOD’s
commands is what counts.
20 Each person should remain in the situation they were in when GOD called them.
21 Were you a slave when you were called? Don’t let it trouble
you—although if you can gain your freedom, do so.
22 For the one who was a slave when called to faith in THE LORD is the LORD’s freed person; similarly,
the one who was free when called is CHRIST’s slave.
23 You were bought at a price; do not become slaves of human
beings.
24 Brothers and sisters, each person, as responsible to GOD, should remain in
the situation they were in when GOD called them.
25 Now about virgins:
I
have no command from THE
LORD, but I give a judgment as one who by the LORD’s mercy is
trustworthy.
26 Because of the present crisis, I think that it is good for a man
to remain as he is.
27 Are you pledged to a woman? Do not seek to be released.
Are
you free from such a commitment? Do not look for a wife.
28 But if you do marry, you have not sinned; and if a virgin
marries, she has not sinned. But those who marry will face many troubles in
this life, and I want to spare you this.
29 What I mean, brothers and sisters, is that the time is
short. From now on those who have wives should live as if they do not;
30 those who mourn, as if they did not;
those
who are happy, as if they were not;
those
who buy something, as if it were not theirs to keep;
31 those who use the things of the world, as if not engrossed in
them. For this world in its present form is passing away.
32 I would like you to be free from concern. An unmarried man is
concerned about THE LORD’s
affairs—how he can please THE
LORD.
33 But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this world—how
he can please his wife—
34 and his interests are divided. An unmarried woman or virgin is
concerned about THE LORD’s
affairs: Her aim is to be devoted to THE LORD in both body and spirit. But a
married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world—how she can please
her husband.
35 I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you, but that
you may live in a right way in undivided devotion to THE LORD.
36 If anyone is worried that he might not be acting honorably toward
the virgin he is engaged to, and if his passions are too strong and
he feels he ought to marry, he should do as he wants. He is not
sinning. They should get married.
37 But the man who has settled the matter in his own mind, who is
under no compulsion but has control over his own will, and who has made up his
mind not to marry the virgin—this man also does the right thing.
38 So then, he who marries the virgin does right, but he who
does not marry her does better.
39 A woman is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if
her husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wishes, but he must belong to
THE LORD.
40 In my judgment, she is happier if she stays as she is—and I
think that I too have THE SPIRIT OF GOD.”
